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Monday, July 17, 2006

Shmiras HaLashon: ב תשרי - Tishrei 2 - Second Day

© 2006 by Robert Lepor. All rights reserved.

Whereupon learning of the [life-sustaining power of mitzvos], one can recognize how necessary it is to be careful [to follow] all of the 613 mitzvos with all of [one's] strength throughout his lifetime, for [those mitzvos] draw eternal life onto the limbs and ligaments of the soul. [This follows that which is written in Parshas Acharei Mos, [as follows]: “And you shall guard all My decrees and laws that one should perform them and live with them….”, it not [being] written [in the pasuk] “and live according to them”.
(Vayikra: 18, 5) [The wording] comes to teach us that it is the light of the mitzvah which sustains [the person's] existence in The World to Come (L’Asid Lavo)]. Therefore, just as [a person] wants to be complete with all of his limbs in this world, without defects even in the smallest of limbs, [he should be careful in his fulfillment of the 613 mitzvos so as to ensure completeness in all his limbs for eternity, in The World to Come].

Specifically regarding the matter of Shmiras HaLashon[3], if one permits himself to be [included among] a group of speakers of Lashon HaRa in this world, Heaven Forbid, he will consequently certainly not prevent his ears from always listening to and accepting the Lashon HaRa and Rechilus[4], especially [listening to and accepting the Lashon HaRa] so as to have something to relate to others. [The above] is the attribute of the Holeich Rochail[5], who goes and listens [to the goings-on] in one place, in order to “sell” this “merchandise” elsewhere. [The actions of the Holeich Rochail are] analogous to one who hawks his wares [as is depicted in Toras Kohanim [6] and in RaSh"I’s commentary [on Vayikra: 19, 16][7]]. [The Holeich Rochail] will corrupt his gifts of speech and hearing in his lifetime. His soul will similarly certainly be punished, in the future world, specifically via [his spiritual organs] of speech and hearing because of [their involvement in forbidden speech].[8]

As a result of [the person's] forbidden speech [involving] Lashon HaRa and Rechilus, he has transgressed [the prohibition of] “Do not be a talebearer in your nation...” (Vayikra: 19, 16) the essence of [this prohibition involving] the mouth. Upon hearing Lashon HaRa and accepting it, one encounters the prohibition of “Do not accept a false report” (Shmos[9]: 23; 1) [This is similar to that which is brought in Sefer Chareidim in [its discussion of] the prohibitions that relate to the ears.[10] I have quoted from Sefer Chareidim in Sefer Chofetz Chaim (volume 1, chapter 6 in Be’air Mayim Chaim (Sif Katan 2), in relation to the above teaching.] It is known that the attributes of speech and hearing are the main qualities [that reflect] the form and completeness of the person even in this world. [The Sages, quoted in maseches Chagigah (2b) teach the well known saying, that a cheresh (deaf-mute), [shares the halachic[10] status of] a shoteh[11] (lunatic) and a child in every instance. In Bava Kamma (85b) [we learn] that “If one is caused to become a deaf-mute, the perpetrator must compensate him maximally because his loss of value is considered [halachically[12]] “total”. [As a cheresh suffers such a devastating loss in this world], in the World to Come [he would he suffer] all the more so.

Even if we would say that as a result of his involvement with words of Torah and holiness during his lifetime, he will not be completely lacking his hearing and speech abilities in The World to Come, those senses will nevertheless undoubtedly be crippled, for he damaged them while he was living, [by speaking that which is forbidden] and did not repent [for having committed those sins]. For it is known to all who have understanding that even in this world, if, Heaven Forbid, one’s power of speech and hearing would be impaired, [he being able to speak and hear but with great difficulty], this will still cause the person [who sinned to suffer] anguish during his lifetime. As speech and hearing are the primary attributes of the individual, their impairment would cause that person far more shame than would impairment of other limbs. Furthermore, it is not possible for the person to conceal impairment of speech or hearing. [If one suffers so greatly in this world from impairment of speech and hearing], how much more so [will he suffer] in the Upper World[13], his soul suffering great distress in Gan Eiden[14] in public view! Even if the habitual speaker of Lashon HaRa would only be punished with impairment of his senses of speech and hearing, he would nonetheless suffer great embarrassment as a result. [The person who is impaired in their faculties of speech and hearing would be greatly embarrassed] in The World to Come, for it is known and recognized to everyone [in The World to Come] that impairment of [the faculties of] speech and hearing is due to one’s being a habitual speaker of Lashon HaRa and an instigator of conflict in this world.


[1] Shmiras HaLashon – Lit. “Guarding the Tongue” refers to the mitzvah of not engaging in discussions involving forbidden speech, such as Lashon HaRa and Motzi Shem Ra.

[2] Rechilus – Comes from the word “Rochail” – a traveling merchant who travels around trying to sell his wares. Rechilus refers to the act of “tale-bearing” and spreading evil reports, similar to the manner in which the merchant goes about advertising his goods. This refers specifically to a case where someone communicates Lashon HaRa about another person and a third party relates to the injured party that the first person spoke Lashon HaRa about him.

[3] Holeich Rochail refers to one who goes around and spreads Rechilus.

[4] This teaching from Toras Kohanim” is found on Parshas Kedoshim, chapter 4.

[5] The pasuk says, "לא-תלך רכיל בעמיך לא תעמד על-דם רעך אני ה:" (ויקרא: יט, טז) – “Do not be a tale-bearer among your nation, do not stand [idly] by the blood of your fellow, I am HaShem.” (Vayikra: 19, 16) RaSh"I explains that the Holeich Rochail is the traveling merchant who constantly hawks his wares. According to RaSh"I, “[The “tale-bearer” is referred to as “Holeich Rochail”] as all who instigate discord as well as those who speak Lashon HaRa go to the house of their fellow to spy, [collecting that which] they will see or hear [that is] evil so as to tell it over in the marketplace. Such individuals are therefore called "הולכי רכיל" – “Holchei Rochail”, [which can also be read as] "הולכי רגילה" – “Holchei Rigilah” - “those who go out spying” (as the "כ" (chaf) and "ג" (gimmel) are interchangeable in Hebrew)… They (i.e. the Holchei Rochail) are accustomed to eat in the house of the one who ravenously “eats” their words of Rechilus. [The individual who accepts the words of the Rochail] facilitates his continued Rechilus by lending credence to the veracity of the Rochail’s claims.”

[7] * {The GR”A (Acronym for Gaon Rav Eliyahu, Rabbi Eliyahu Kramer (1720 – 1797), commonly known as the Vilna Gaon (Great one of Vilna) - translator’s note) [comments] on the [following] pasuk: “He who scorns a [Torah] precept will cause himself injury, and one who holds a mitzvah in awe will be rewarded”. (Mishlei: 13; 13) According to the GR”A, “there are 248 limbs in a person, which correspond to the 248 positive commandments. Each of these mitzvos provides life to the corresponding limb. Therefore, one who scorns any mitzvah, causes himself damage, for he becomes lacking from the life-giving power of that mitzvah. However, one who fears neglecting any mitzvah, and sees to it that he fulfills everything, will be complete in all of his limbs [in The World to Come].”

We can also say, that this is the meaning of the following pasuk in Parshas Ha’Azinu: “Corruption is not His – the blemish is His children’s” (Devarim: 32, 5), the explanation being: “Corruption is not His”: Our sins only have the power to corrupt ourselves, they cannot corrupt HaShem. As it is written: “If you sinned, what have you accomplished against him?” (Iyov: 35, 6) This being similar to RaSh"I’s explanation [in Parshas Ha’Azinu] that “The blemish is His sons (Devarim: 32, 5). RaSh"I explains that the blemish is of His sons. The meaning follows the simple understanding that one becomes blemished [in The World to Come] due to his sins. That is, if Heaven Forbid he treats any mitzvah as ownerless, in The [World to Come] he will have a blemish in the limb corresponding to that [neglected] mitzvah. [This follows the above teaching] of the GR”A.}

[8] Shmos – Lit. “Names” refers to “Exodus”, the second book of the Torah.

[9] This teaching is found in chapter 23, [3], sif 3 in Sefer Chareidim – in the new printing.

[10] Halachic” and halacha” refer to Jewish law.

[11] Shoteh – Refers to a lunatic. This includes people who would engage in behaviors such as sleeping alone, undressed in a cemetery at night.

[12] Halachically – According to Jewish law.

[13] “The Upper world” is English for “Olam Ha’Elyon” which refers to the world of the souls.

[14] Gan Eiden is the “Garden of Eden” where the souls of the righteous will delight in the great spirituality and in closeness to HaShem.

Sunday, July 16, 2006

Shmiras HaLashon: א תשרי - Tishrei 1 - Introduction

בּס"ד
© 2006 by Robert Lepor. All rights reserved.

Introduction

It is written [in Mishlei[1] : 21, 23]: “One who guards his mouth and tongue, guards [himself] from troubles of his soul.” To understand the concept behind why the pasuk[2] specifies guarding one’s speech as a preventative measure against the troubles of the soul (more so than all other matters that the Complete Person must guard during his lifetime), refer to those commentators who explain the simple meaning of the pasuk. I will provide my own answers (with which HaShem[3] has graced me), through which we shall also understand that which is written [Tehillim[4] (34; 13-14)]: “Who is the man who desires life, who loves days to see good? Guard your tongue from evil….”[5]

It appears that the reason the pasuk has specifically pointed out avoidance of Lashon HaRa[6], is because it is known that every man has 248 limbs and 365 ligaments which are spiritual. [These spiritual limbs and ligaments] are clothed in the 248 limbs and 365 ligaments that are physical. [The above follows that which] it says [in sefer "Iyov"]: “[With] skin and flesh You[7] have enclothed me, and with bones and ligaments You have covered me.” (Iyov[8]: 10; 11)

Behold, the pasuk mentions skin and flesh and ligaments and bones, and it describes them as “clothing” and “covering”, as it says in the pasuktalbishenienclothe me”, “tisochicheni – cover me”. Whom did [HaShem][9] enclothe, if not the soul that resides in the body which is the essence of the person? Every single spiritual limb is enclothed in a physical limb that mirrors the will of that spiritual limb, [this being] analogous to clothing [covering] the body. In relation to this, The Holy One, Blessed is He, gave us 248 positive commandments and 365 negative commandments that are associated with the limbs. There is a commandment that is dependent upon the hand, and there is a commandment that is dependent upon the foot, similarly [such is the case with] all of the other limbs, as it says in Sefer Chareidim (that the mitzvos[10] are enumerated according to the number of limbs of the person). When a person fulfills any mitzvah with any limb in this world, [then] the light of HaShem will rest upon that limb in The World to Come[11] . It is that [spiritual] light that provides life to that limb. This [is the case that the aforementioned spiritual, life-giving light rests on each of the limbs, as a result of the performance] of every mitzvah. We see that when a person fulfills 248 positive commandments, he becomes the complete person that is holy to HaShem with all of his limbs. [The aforementioned] is what is referred to in the chapter of tzitzis[12], [when it states] (Bamidbar[13]: 15; 40), “...and you shall perform all of My commandments and you shall be holy to your G-d.” However, if Heaven Forbid, one will be lacking one mitzvah from the 248 positive commandments, that he neglected and for which he did not repent, [then], in The World to Come, he will be lacking the spiritual limb that corresponds to that given mitzvah. [The above teaching relates to] that [which] is what is [taught] in [maseches] Berachos[14] (26a): “That which is perverted cannot be repaired”[15] (Koheles[16]: 1; 15) – This [pasuk] refers to one who neglected the recitation of Shema[17] of the evening or the recitation of Shema of the morning, or the prayer of Ma’ariv[18] or of Shacharis[19]. [In contrast], when a person is careful to refrain from transgressing the negative precepts of the Torah, he draws the Holy Light onto the ligaments of his soul; and when he is not careful [to refrain from transgressing the negative precepts], Heaven Forbid, [those ligaments] will be crippled [in The World to Come]. This [teaching] is explained at length in the sefer[20] Sha’arei Kedushah[21] in the first chapter[22].

[1] Mishlei” is the book of Proverbs.

[2]
Pasuk” refers to verse”.

[3] “HaShem” (literally “The Name”) is one of the references to G-d.


[4]
Tehillim” is the book of Psalms.

[5] The full quote is: “Who is the man who desires life, who loves days to see good? Guard your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking deceit.”
(Tehillim: 34; 13 - 14)

[6]
Lashon HaRa literally means "evil speech" and refers to slander, such as when one relates information about their fellow in a manner which may cause harm or degradation to befall that individual as a result.

[7] Any time the pronouns such as “He”, “Him”, “My”, or
You are capitalized, they refer to HaShem. In this pasuk, You refers to HaShem.

[8]
Iyov refers to the book of Job.

[9] The literal translation of this verse would be Whom did He enclothe... instead of “Whom did [HaShem] enclothe....

[10]
Mitzvah is a biblical command, which is either positive (i.e. “do this”) or negative (i.e. “refrain”).

[11] Tzitzis – Literally, “fringe”. Refers to a four-cornered garment with fringes on each corner, discussed in (Bamidbar: 15; 37-41).


[12]
L'Asid Lavo” - literally, In future times can have varying meaning, depending on the context. In this context, L'Asid Lavo refers to The World to Come, where one will partake of their eternal reward. In other contexts, L'Asid Lavo” can refer to the Messianic era, or to the post-Messianic era.

[13]
Bamidbar – “Numbers” – fourth book of the Pentateuch.

[14] Berachos – The first masechta (tractate) in the Talmud.


[15] The entire pasuk reads, “That which is perverted cannot be made straight, and that which is lacking cannot be counted.” (Koheles: 1; 15) – "מעות לא-יוכל לתקן וחסרון לא-יוכל להמנות:" (קהלת: א, טו) RaSh"I (1040 - 1105), one of the foremost Jewish commentators on the Written and Oral Torah, explains, “That which is perverted in his lifetime, cannot be fixed upon death… and our Rabbis have explained that one who has a forbidden sexual relation and thereby fathers a mamzeir (child born from an adulterous or incestuous relationship), or a Talmid Chacham (Torah scholar) who leaves Torah, are cases when something was originally straight but had become perverted.”


[16] Koheles – The book of Ecclesiastes, written by King Solomon and read on the holiday of Sukkos (Tabernacles).


[17] The “Shema” includes portions from the Torah that deal with acceptance of the yoke of Heaven upon oneself, the consequences of following the mitzvos or refraining from their observance, and the portion that deals with the mitzvah of tzitzis and the Exodus from Egypt. The Shema is recited twice daily, in the morning and evening prayers. The Shema, or a portion thereof, is also recited upon going to sleep.


[18]
Ma'ariv” is the evening prayer.

[19]
Shacharisis the morning prayer.

[20]
Sefer is a book.

[21] Sha’arei Kedushah is a book, which means “Gates of Holiness”.

[22] This teaching is found in the first section and first gate of sefer
Sha’arei Kedushah”.

Source for Shmiras HaLashon

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