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Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Shmiras HaLashon ו שבט - Shevat 6 - One-Hundred-and-Twenty-Fifth Day

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[In addition to those whose anger leads them to speak Lashon HaRa], there are [also] those [who fall prey to the sin of Lashon HaRa] due to [the attribute of] mockery. [In our context, the one who involves himself in the sin of mockery refers to the person who] accustoms himself [in the trait of] mockery and [who comes] to [associate with] the group of people who are mockers. Therefore, [such a person] will also consequently [come to] be drawn to mock [other] people as well as to deride them.

Therefore, one who wishes to cleanse his soul [from the sin of mockery], will contemplate [concerning how] serious the prohibition of mockery is, in a number of respects. [The sin of mockery is so severe], for aside from [the fact that] he himself to sins, [mockery] being one of the four things for which [the person] does not greet The Countenance of HaShem’s Divine Presence, as our Sages of Blessed Memory have said [in masechesSotah”, 42a][1], he also brings the masses to sin, for he causes them to increase [their level of involvement] in [the attribute of] mockery. The greatness of the punishment for one who leads the masses to sin is known, [that being] that he is not provided [a sufficient opportunity] to perform tishuvah for this [sin], as our Sages of Blessed Memory have said [in “Pirkei Avos” (Chapter 5, Mishna 18)][2]. Aside from all of this, [the person who associates with mockers, is] involved in idle chatter, even if [his association with them] doesn’t involve that which is [otherwise inherently] forbidden, he [still] causes himself to lose the time in which he would have otherwise been able to involve himself in words of Torah [study], and [thereby] acquire the life of The World to Come. [By wasting his time in which he could have spent involved in Torah study by allowing idle chatter to take precedence over that Torah study], it appears that [the person] is intentionally scorning the words of HaShem and [of] the reward of The World to Come. [This follows that which our Sages] have said in “Perek Chelek”, [in masechesSanhedrin” (99a)], on the pasuk, [in ParshasShilach”], ““For he has scorned the word of HaShem…”[3] (Bamidbar: 15; 31): Rabbi Nihorye said, ‘[This refers to] anyone for whom it is possible to involve himself in Torah [study] and he [nevertheless] does not involve himself [in the study of Torah].”[4]

[1] The rest of the quote from the gemara is as follows:

“The group of mockers [are not received by HaShem's Divine Presence], as it is written, "...He withdrew His hand [from being with] mockers" (Hoshea: 7; 5), the group of flatterers, as it is written, "For a flatterer does not come before Him." (Iyov: 13; 16), the group of liars, as it is written, "One who speaks lies will not be established before My eyes." (Tehillim: 101; 7), the group of speakers of Lashon HaRa, as it is written, “For you are not a G-d who desires evil, evil will not dwell with You.” (Tehillim: 5; 5)” You are righteous HaShem, evil will not dwell in Your habitation.”

[2] The text of this mishna from “Pirkei Avos”, states as follows:

“All those who bring merit to the masses, does not have sin come through him, and all of those who cause the masses to sin, is not provided a sufficient opportunity to perform teshuvah. Moshe [acted] meritoriously and brought merit to the masses, the merit of the masses is dependent upon him, as it says [in ParshasHa’Azinu”], “…he performed the meritorious acts of HaShem and [taught] His laws [to] Israel.” (Divarim: 33; 21) Yiraviam sinned and brought the masses to sin, the sin of the masses is dependent upon him, as it says, “Concerning the sins of Yiraviam the son of Nivat, that he sinned and that he brought Israel to sin…” (Milachim I: 15; 30)”

[3] The entire pasuk reads, “For he has scorned The Word of HaShem, and he has nullified His commandment, that soul shall definitely be cut off, its sin is within it.” (Bamidbar: 15; 31)

[4] There are a number of other explanations brought in the gemara as to what this pasuk is referring to. According to Rabbi Yishmael, this pasuk refers to one who performs idolatry, as the Jew who performs idolatry is scorning The Word of HaShem, that being that which HaShem directly told The B’nei Yisrael at Har Sinai, when He commanded not to have any gods, that HaShem is The only G-d.

Shmiras HaLashon ה שבט - Shevat 5 - One-Hundred-and-Twenty-Fourth Day

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[In the context of the above teaching concerning the dangers posed by the attribute of anger and how it often leads to involvement in the sin of Lashon HaRa], the Holy Zohar, on the pasuk [from seferYishayahu”, states as follows]: ““Stop yourselves from [associating with] the person who has a soul in his nostril, for of what importance is he?”[1] (Yishayahu: 2; 22): Over here, [in this pasuk], The Holy One, Blessed is He, commanded the person, and warned him, to guard himself from those people who deviated from [following] the path of good to [choose to instead follow] the path of evil, [these people being those] who make their souls impure with that other impurity …[2] How can a person discern [as to what person] is fitting to come close to and who is fitting to refrain from [maintaining a relationship]? Precisely at the time of [that person’s] anger [one can discern] and recognize what [type of person he is. If he is a person who] guards his holy soul, [ensuring that] at the time he becomes angry, he doesn’t uproot [his holy soul] from its place in order to [allow] a foreign god to reside [there instead], such is the fitting person [with whom one can associate]… If that person did not guard [his soul], he has uprooted this sublime holiness from its place, [and allows] the sitra achra to reside in its place, [then] this is definitely a person who rebels against his Master, and it is forbidden to come close to him and to join up with him. [Such a person] “devours his soul with his anger”[3], (Iyov: 18; 4) he having shredded and uprooted his soul because of his anger, and allowed a foreign god to reside within himself. Regarding this [individual], it is written, “Stop yourselves from [associating with] the person whose soul is in his anger[4]”, for [that person] devours that very holy soul and makes it impure on account of his anger, [for] he has exchanged his soul in his anger, “for of what importance” is that person? That person is considered to be [as] an idol…”[5] [For more on this teaching] see [the Zohar on ParshasTitzaveh” (Volume 2; 182a)].

Our Sages of Blessed Memory have also said [in masechesPisachim” (66b), as follows]: “Any person who gets angry, even if from Heaven he has been determined to [achieve] greatness, they lower him [from his stature of greatness].”[6]

Furthermore, our Sages of Blessed Memory have said [in masechesNidarim
(22a), as follows]: “[Concerning] all of those who get angry, all types of gehinnom rule over him.” The intended meaning [of the above teaching being], that for each sin, there is a punishment designated for that sin, and through the attribute of anger, the person comes to [transgress] practically every type of sin. [The above will be found to be true by] one who contemplates the evil of this attribute [of anger]. The attribute of anger is so bad], to the extent that our Sages of Blessed Memory have said [in masechesNidarim” (22b), that in reference to one who get angry], it is known that his demerits are more numerous than [are] his merits. Therefore, [our Sages] have said: “All types of gehinnom rule over him”. Therefore, the person needs to remove the [attribute of] anger from his heart, and he will [thereby] be saved from the judgment of gehinnom, and will merit [to partake of] the life of The World to Come.

[1] This pasuk is brought in the context of some of the Jewish People coming to worship idols. This chapter of seferYishayahu” begins by discussing that once the Mashiach comes, many of the nations of the world will come to recognize of the importance of following in the paths of HaShem and of the validity of The Torah. (Yishayahu: 2; 2 – 3) The chapter then continues with a discussion of the sin of idolatry that many people were involved in during the time of Yishayahu.

The chapter concludes with the pasuk included in the text of seferShmiras HaLashon”, as follows:

“Stop yourselves from [associating with] the person who has a soul in his nostril, for of what importance is he?” (2; 22)

RaSh”I explains that the person should not heed those individuals who try to cause him to stray from the Service of HaShem, in favor of idolatry. No one should not pay heed to the person who tries to convince them to worship idols, that person’s power of existence being dependent on his ability to breathe, he being alive today and will not be around tomorrow. How much more so should the person not worship the idol who does not even breathe and which amounts to nothing.

[2] This impurity refers to the impurity from the “Sitra Achra” (lit. “other side”), also known as the Satan.

[3] The entire pasuk from seferIyov”, states, “[Concerning] one who devours his soul in his anger, is it for your sake that the Earth is abandoned [from judgment] and that [The] Rock (i.e. HaShem) is uprooted from His place (i.e. from His thoughts and from His attributes)?” (Translation based on RaSh”I)

[4] Though in this pasuk from sefer
Yishayahu, af is translated to mean nostril, as in breath in his nostril, an alternate translation of af is anger, as in accordance with the way the pasuk is used in The Zohar.

[5] This section of the Zohar, though not quoted in full, states as follows:

““Stop yourselves from [associating with] the person who has a soul in his nostril, for of what importance is he?” (Yishayahu: 2; 22): Over here, [in this pasuk], The Holy One, Blessed is He, commanded the person, and warned him, to guard himself from those people who deviated from [following] the path of good to [choose to instead follow] the path of evil, [these people being those] who make their souls impure with that other impurity… How can a person discern [as to what person] is fitting to come close to and who is fitting to refrain from [maintaining a relationship]? Precisely at the time of [that person’s] anger [one can discern] and recognize what [type of person he is. If he is a person who] guards his holy soul, [ensuring that] at the time he becomes angry, he doesn’t uproot [his holy soul] from its place in order to [allow] a foreign god to reside [there instead], such is the fitting person [with whom one can associate], such is [the person] who serves his Master (i.e. HaShem), this is the complete person. If that person did not guard [his soul], he has uprooted this sublime holiness from its place, [and allows] the sitra achra to reside in its place, [then] this is definitely a person who rebels against his Master, and it is forbidden to come close to him and to join up with him. [Such a person] “Devours his soul with his anger”, (Iyov: 18; 4) he having shredded and uprooted his soul because of his anger, and allowed a foreign god to reside within himself. Regarding this [individual], it is written, “Stop yourselves from [associating with] the person whose soul is in his anger (nostrils)”, for [that person] devours that very holy soul and makes it impure on account of his anger, [for] he has exchanged his soul in his anger, “for of what importance” is that person? That person is considered to be [as] an idol. [Concerning] one who associates with [such a person], and one who speaks with [such a person], is precisely like one who associates with idols. What is the reason [that such a person is considered as an idol]? Since he placed [an] actual idol within him, [as well as having] uprooted the sublime holiness from its place, and bringing a foreign god to reside in its place. Just as it is written concerning a foreign god, “Do not turn to the idols…” (Vayikra: 19; 4), in such a manner, it is forbidden to stare at [such a person’s] face.”

The Zohar continues by pointing out that the “anger” exhibited by Torah scholars, if it’s purpose is to give honor to The Torah and The Service of HaShem, then that anger is not the negative type of anger that is discussed above. In masechesTa’anis” (4a), Rava says that the person, though they involve themselves in Torah and might get “angry” on account of defending The Torah, they should nevertheless accustom themselves to act in a calm fashion.

[6] The full text of the gemara on this topic, states as follows:

“Reish Lakish said: ‘[Concerning] every person who becomes angry, if he is wise, his wisdom departs from him, if he is a prophet, his prophecy departs from him. [We learn that] if he is wise, his wisdom departs from him from Moshe. [This follows] that which is written [concerning Moshe in ParshasMattos”], “And Moshe became angry against those appointed over the army…” (Bamidbar: 31; 14), and it is [subsequently] written, “And Elazar the kohen said to the men of the army that came to war, this is the ordinance of The Torah which HaShem commanded Moshe…” (31; 21) [From the above, we see] that [this halacha that Elazar taught the army], was concealed from [Moshe. We know that] if [the person who gets angry] is a prophet, his prophecy departs from him, [this being evident] from [the following incident involving] Elisha [and Yehoram, the king of Israel], as it is written, “…If it would not be that I am greeting the countenance of Yehoshafat, the king of Yehuda, I would not stare at you, nor would I look at you.” (Milachim II: 3; 14), and it is [subsequently] written, “And now take a musician, and it shall be that when the musician plays the instrument, and The [Spirit] of HaShem rested upon [Elisha].” (RaSh”I – Due to Elisha’s anger, HaShem’s Divine Presence departed him. Metzudas David explains that since Elisha was in a state of anger, he was not able to prophesize until the musician played and made him happy, at which point, he was prepared to prophesize.) (3; 15)” Rabbi Mani bar Patish said, ‘[Concerning] all of those who get angry, even if he has been determined to achieve greatness from Heaven, they lower him [from his stature of greatness]. From where [do we know this to be the case]? From Eliav, [David’s older brother], as it says, “And Eliav’s anger flared against David, and he said, ‘Why did you descend [here], and with whom have you abandoned these few sheep in the desert? I know of your wickedness, and of the evil of your heart, for you descended to see the war.” (Shmuel I: 17; 28) At the time that Shmuel went to anoint [David as king], concerning all [of David’s brothers], it is written, “…HaShem did not choose this one [to become king].” (Shmuel I: 16; 18) [However], in reference to Eliav, it is written, “And HaShem said to Shmuel, do not stare at his appearance and [at] the height of his stature, for I have rejected him…” (16; 7) From here we see that [HaShem] loved him until [that] day.”

RaSh”I points out that even though the incident of Eliav becoming angry at David occurred subsequent to his being rejected by HaShem from becoming king, nevertheless, since it was known to HaShem that Eliav was one who was one who was angered more easily, he was therefore rejected.

Sunday, August 19, 2007

Shmiras HaLashon ד שבט - Shevat 4 - One-Hundred-and-Twenty-Third Day

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There are some [people] who are accustomed [to involve themselves in the sin of] Lashon HaRa due to the [intensity] of [their] anger. [These individuals who are prone to anger, in our context], are [those individuals, who] by their very nature [are] irascible, it being easy for [that person] to get angry about anything. [Concerning such a person], when he becomes angry, it is impossible for him to restrain himself, and he speaks of all of that which occurs to him, [regardless of its permissibility]. For such a person, we do not have any advice [to offer him which he could use to assist himself in] guarding his tongue [from speaking that which is forbidden], for at the time that his anger overpowers him, he is not in his right-mind. [In order for such a person to overcome his habituation to forbidden speech, it is essential for him] to uproot this evil characteristic [of anger] from his [very nature].

Whoever has a brain in his head needs to run from this evil attribute [of anger] as he [would] run from a fire. For [the person] is clearly aware that due to this evil attribute [of anger], in the future, on The Day of Judgment, he will definitely emerge [with a verdict of] guilty. [The person should be aware that he would emerge guilty on The Day of Judgment due to his attribute of anger, for it] is known that one who has a majority of demerits, falls in the category of [those who are] evil. [This follows that which] our Sages of Blessed Memory have said [in masechesNidarim” (22b), as follows]: “[Concerning] all of those who [regularly] get angry, it is known that his sins are more numerous than [are] his merits, as it says [in seferMishlei”, “and one who is habituated to anger [possesses] numerous intentional sins.” (Mishlei: 29; 22) [Concerning the reason why] they have used the term “פּשע” – “intentional sin”, [is that] at the time of the [person’s] anger, The Torah and the mitzvos are completely ownerless [to] him, as our Sages of Blessed Memory have said [in maseches “Nidarim” (22b), as follows]: “[Concerning] all of those who get angry, even HaShem’s Divine Presence is not of any importance to him.”[1] Our Sages of Blessed Memory have [also] said [in masechesShabbos” (105b), as follows]: “[Concerning] all [of] those who tear their clothes [out of a state of] anger, should be considered in your eyes as one who worships idols…” What is [the] pasuk [that is the source for this teaching]? “You shall not have a foreign god within you”. (Tehillim: 81; 10) What is a foreign god that [resides] within the body of a person? You would say that this is the evil inclination of anger.”[2]

[1] The entire text in this section of the gemara states as follows:

“Rabbi Shmuel bar Nachmani said in the name of Rabbi Yochanan: ‘[Concerning] all those who get angry, all types of gehinnom rule over him, as it says [in seferKoheles”], “And you shall remove anger from your heart, and you shall cause [the] evil [inclination] to pass from your flesh…” (11; 10) and “evil” only [refers to] gehinnom, as it says [in seferMishlei”], “All the actions of HaShem are for His sake, and also the evildoer [is prepared] for the evil day.” (Mishlei: 16; 4) Not only [is the aforementioned the case], rather, abdominal pains rule over [the person who is regularly angry], as it says, “…And HaShem shall give you, an angry heart, faintness of sight, and anguish of the soul over there [in exile].” (Divarim: 28; 65) What is the thing that brings faintness to the eyes and causes anguish to the soul? You would say, [that it is] abdominal troubles [that causes one to experience faintness of eyes and anguish of the soul].

At the time that Ulla went up to The Land of Israel, two people from Mechoza, [a district on the Tigris], escorted him. [At one point during the journey], one [of the escorts] got up and slaughtered his fellow. [The murderer] said to Ulla: ‘Did I act properly [by murdering the other individual]? [Ulla] said to him, ‘Yes, and cut open his neck’. When Ulla came before Rabbi Yochanan, he said to him, ‘Perhaps, Heaven Forbid, I [encouraged] one who was committing a transgression?’ [Rabbi Yochanan] said: ‘You saved your life [by saying that to him]’. Rabbi Yochanan was surprised: ‘Let’s see, it is written [in reference to] Bavel, “…And HaShem shall give you an angry heart over there…” (Divarim: 28; 65) [Ulla] said to [Rabbi Yochanan], ‘At that time, we had still not crossed the Jordan [River and therefore had not, as of yet, entered Eretz Yisrael]’. Rabbah bar bar Huna said, ‘[Concerning] all of those who get angry, even HaShem’s Divine Presence isn’t considered important before him, as it says [in “Tehillim”], “In accordance with the height of his anger, [the] evildoer [behaves] as if no one seeks out his actions, all his thoughts are that there is no G-d [to judge him for his actions].” (10; 4) Rabbi Yirmiyah from Difti said, ‘[One who gets angry] forgets his learning, and he increases [his level of] stupidity, as it says, “…For anger rests in the bosom of the fools.” (Koheles: 7; 9), and it is written [in “Mishlei”], “…and a fool will utter foolishness.” (13; 16) Rav Nachman bar Yitzchak said, ‘[Concerning one who gets angry regularly], it is known that his merits are more numerous than are his demerits, as it says, “…and one who is habitually angry, [possesses] numerous willful transgressions.”’ (Mishlei: 29; 22)”

[2] The teaching in masechesShabbos” (105b), concerning anger, states as follows:

“…We learned in a Baraisa, [as follows]: “Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar said in the name of Chilfa bar Agra, who said in the name of Rabbi Yochanan ben Nuri, ‘One who tears his garments out of anger, and one who breaks his vessels out of his state of anger, and one who squanders his money out of anger, should be considered in your eyes as akin to one who worships idols; For such is the craft of the evil inclination, today he tells you to do this [action], and tomorrow he tells you to do this [action], to the point [that the Yetzer HaRa] tells [the person] to worship idols, and he goes and worships [idols, in line with the dictates of his Yetzer HaRa]. Rabbi Avin said, what is the pasuk [which is the source for the teaching that one is akin to an idolater if he causes destruction out of a state of anger]? [The pasuk
which is the source is found for this teaching is as follows]: “You shall not have a strange god within you and you shall not bow to a foreign god.” (Tehillim: 81; 10) What is the foreign god that [resides] in the body of the person? You would say that this is the evil inclination.”

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Shmiras HaLashon ג שבט - Shevat 3 - One-Hundred-and-Twenty-Second Day

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Chapter 13

In [this Chapter, we] shall Explain [Concerning] a number of Bad Habits, through which, [as a result], the person comes to [Subsequently Transgress] The Prohibition of Lashon HaRa. Therefore, [in light of the potential danger posed by such negative attributes], the person needs to distance himself from [involvement in these habits].

Behold, [the advice proffered in the previous chapter concerning the need to remember concerning the Lashon HaRa that Miriam spoke, her subsequent punishment, and of the severity of this sin], applies to one who has still not accustomed himself to [regularly involve himself in] this sin [of Lashon HaRa. For such a person], it is easy to be rescued from this bitter sin through these [previously noted pieces of] advice. However, if [the person] has accustomed himself [to regularly involve himself] in this [sin of Lashon HaRa, then] it is exceedingly difficult for him to detach [himself] from this sin. [In such a case when one has become accustomed to involve himself in the sin of Lashon HaRa, he should] treat this spiritual malady of his as if he would have a physical illness, [concerning which] the doctor wishes to heal him. [In order to treat the sickness, the doctor] will seek out the cause of the illness, [in order to determine how the person] contracted [this illness], so that [he will] know which [type of] compress he should wrap [around the appropriate area, which would benefit the person in the recovering from the] illness.

The [above] is true involving matters of the soul, [concerning which the person] needs to trace [the] root [of the spiritual malady, in order to determine] where he [attained] this [negative] attribute [which is the source of his spiritual failings. Once the person discovers the source for his given spiritual deficiencies], he will be aware of [the optimal manner in which] to veer away from any obstacles [which would hinder his overcoming those negative attributes in the future]. Behold, a number of [negative attributes] are found to be the causes [which would lead the person to involve himself in] this sin [of Lashon HaRa. The acronymn for these negative character traits being] “כּל ג
יהנם” – “All of Gehinnom”, [which stands for]: 1) עס– Anger, 2) ליצנות– mockery, 3) גאוה – haughtiness, 4) יאוש – despair, 5) הפקר – abandonment of the law, 6) נרגנות – grumbling, [and] 7) אומר מתּר – [one who] says, “it is permitted”. We shall [continue by] explaining [each of these traits] on an individual basis [in the context of them being causes which often lead people to involve themselves in the sin of Lashon HaRa].

Sunday, August 12, 2007

Shmiras HaLashon בּ שבט - Shevat 2 - One-Hundred-and-Twenty-First Day

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Behold, [concerning] all of [that which we have learned regarding the punishment that was inflicted upon Miriam for the Lashon HaRa that she had spoken], the person is able to contemplate with a kal va’chomer[1] [concerning the great punishment for involvement in Lashon HaRa and the severity of the sin], for nowadays we are all like moss on the wall compared to Miriam, the prophetess[2]. From the [separate] incidents [of Lashon HaRa involving] Miriam and the spies[3], the greatness of the punishment that comes [about as a result of] this [sin of Lashon HaRa], is evident to everyone. [Such a punishment for involvement in Lashon HaRa can occur if] one will not guard himself from [active involvement in] Lashon HaRa, [this being the case] even if [the Lashon HaRa that the person relates] is similar [in nature] to the incident involving Miriam. [The punishment that befalls the person who speaks Lashon HaRa, is] specifically [applicable] if [the person] speaks the Lashon HaRa with intent to disgrace and embarrass his fellow. [In such a situation, the speaker of Lashon HaRa] will definitely not be free from the great punishment of tzara’as, or of other punishments which come in the place [of the tzara’as affliction], (as we have written earlier [in volume] 1, chapter 5, ([as well as] in chapter 6[4]). [In such a situation, the punishment that will befall the person for involvement in the Lashon HaRa], will not be postponed on his account[5]. The [person] who hears [the above teaching concerning Miriam] and constantly fulfills it, to remember in [the aforementioned] manner [concerning the importance to avoid Lashon HaRa], will definitely be saved from this sin.

Consequently, from all [of that which we have learned], we will understand that each Jewish [person] needs to know the specifics of the laws of Lashon HaRa, in order that he will know [how] to be careful [in his avoidance of involvement in Lashon HaRa. It is essential that the person be familiar with the laws of Lashon HaRa], for [if the person is unfamiliar with some of the laws of Lashon HaRa, of] what benefit will [be gained by] remembering the incident involving Miriam? [For] if the evil inclination entices [the person to speak that which is forbidden, arguing] that this speech does not enter into the category of Lashon HaRa, or that concerning such a person The Torah did not command [one to refrain from when discussing] the prohibition of Lashon HaRa, [how could he be confident that he won’t come to involve himself in the sin of Lashon HaRa]?

[1] “Kal Va'Chomer” is an a fortiori argument.

[2] By saying that “we are like moss on the wall compared to Miriam”, the Chofetz Chaim is describing Miriam’s greatness and righteous compared to us.

[3] This refers to the incident where Moshe sent twelve spies to spy out what would become The Land of Israel, ten of whom spoke Lashon HaRa (and Motzi Shem Ra) about The Land of Israel, the exceptions being Yehoshua and Kalev. This incident is recorded in the beginning of ParshasSh’lach” (Bamidbar: 13).

[4] The fifth chapter of the first volume – “Sha’ar HaZechirah” – begins with the 25th day of Tishrei. The sixth chapter ends with the 30th day of Tishrei.

[5] As we learned previously, notwithstanding Miriam’s great righteousness and her positive intentions when she spoke the Lashon HaRa, she was punished immediately. How much more so, would the punishment not be delayed for a person who speaks Lashon HaRa with negative intentions and is on a much lower level than Miriam.

Shmiras HaLashon א שבט - Shevat 1 - One-Hundred-and-Twentieth Day

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Incidental [to the previous teaching regarding the obligation to remember Miriam’s punishment for having spoken Lashon HaRa concerning Moshe], we shall thoroughly explain [the] pasuk [dealing with the circumstances of Miriam’s punishment. As a result of this thorough explanation], all thinking people will recognize the truth of our words [when we teach that remembering the incident involving Miriam will greatly assist that person in rescuing himself from the sin of Lashon HaRa. Our explanation of this pasuk involves the following] four matters which The Holy Torah elucidates for us in reference to the mitzvah of remembering [Miriam’s punishment]:

1) “Remember that which [HaShem, your G-d] did…”[1] – That being that which [HaShem] did [to Miriam by punishing her with the tzara’as affliction for her having spoken Lashon HaRa].[2]

2) To whom did [HaShem punish with the tzara’as affliction]? “To Miriam”.

3) [Where] did [HaShem punish Miriam]? – “On the path”.

4) At what time did this incident [of Miriam being afflicted with tzara’as] occur? – [Miriam was afflicted with tzara’as at the time] “when you were leaving Egypt”.

What [practical teaching] is The Torah setting aside for us by mentioning these four [details]?

1) What practical difference is there for us if it was another punishment [instead of] the tzara’as affliction, [that Miriam suffered]?

2) [Furthermore, what difference is there] if this matter occurred to Miriam or to another person?

3) [Additionally, what is the significance concerning whether Miriam was afflicted with tzara’as] in the house or on the path?

4) [Moreover, what difference is there concerning whether Miriam’s tzara’as affliction] occurred at another time [rather than] at the time of their departure from Egypt?

Indeed, these four details [related to the circumstances under which Miriam was afflicted with tzara’as], are necessary to remember, and are of great benefit to one who contemplates [concerning] them. For this [reason, in the context of Miriam’s punishment], it is written, “Remember that which [HaShem] did…”, that being that [the person] will contemplate [concerning] the great punishment that was [inflicted] upon [Miriam] as a consequence of her having spoken [Lashon HaRa] concerning Moshe Rabbeinu, Alav HaShalom, [her] punishment being the tzara’as [affliction], it being an exceedingly severe punishment. [Concerning the tzara’as affliction], it is impossible to be cured [of] it, unless The Holy One, Blessed is He, interacts with [the person in a manner which] surpasses the [course] of nature, and He will [consequently] heal [the afflicted individual] in a miraculous manner. [The above] follows that which was taught in “Midrash Rabbah” (Vayikra Rabbah: Parsha 16, 9), as follows]: ““And the kohen shall command, and the one bird[3] shall be slaughtered…”[4] (Vayikra: 14; 5) “Why does [the person] slaughter one [of the birds] and allow [one of the birds to live]? [The above comes to] inform you [that] just as it is impossible for the slaughtered [bird] to return, [similarly, it is impossible for [the] tzara’as afflictions to return to where it came from].”[5] [Furthermore], the impurity [of the mitzora] is exceedingly severe, for he is required to sit outside of the three camps, this not being the case [with respect to] the other types of impure people. Additionally, [the mitzora] makes all of those who enter his tent impure, as is written in the pasuk. ([The fact that the mitzora causes all of those who enter his tent to become impure], hints [to us] that all those who associate with the habitual speaker of Lashon HaRa will become impure as he is, [as they will similarly be afflicted with tzara’as as they will also come to relate Lashon HaRa]). [The mitzora] is also considered like one who is dead, as our Sages of Blessed Memory have said [in masechesNidarim” (64b)[6]].

[In order to distance the individual from Lashon HaRa], the pasuk states, “Remember that which [HaShem, your G-d], did [to Miriam]…” (Divarim: 24; 9) [Who was afflicted with tzara’as]? “…Miriam…” [was afflicted with tzara’as], she being a greatly righteous individual, in whose merit the well[7] ascended, in addition to being a prophetess, as is written “And Miriam the prophetess, the sister of Aharon, took…”[8] (Shmos: 15; 20) [Furthermore, Miriam only spoke [Lashon HaRa] concerning her brother whom she loved [to the same degree that she loved] herself, [having] endangered herself to save him from the water [when he was a baby][9]. [Miriam] did not speak disparagingly of [Moshe], rather, she [spoke Lashon HaRa about Moshe while] comparing him to the other prophets[10], ([this teaching is based on that which] the RaMBa”M wrote in the end of Hilchos “Tumas Tzara’as” (Chapter 16; Halacha 10)). [Miriam also] did not speak in [Moshe’s] presence, [in which case he may have been] embarrassed, nor [did she speak] in public [concerning Moshe, rather, having limited that which she had spoken in reference to Moshe, to having taken place only] between herself and her holy brother [Aharon], in private, her intention [in having spoken with Aharon concerning Moshe being for the purpose] of [the proliferation of mankind[11]. Notwithstanding all of the above, Moshe] did not take any offense [concerning that which Miriam spoke against him], as it says, “And the man Moshe was exceedingly humble…”[12] (Bamidbar: 12; 3) Nevertheless, [even in light of all of the above, Miriam’s] good actions were of no benefit to her [in the context of her having spoken Lashon HaRa, as] she was [nonetheless] punished with tzara’as for [her involvement in Lashon HaRa]. [Where] was [Miriam] afflicted with the punishment [of tzara’as]? “…On the path…” (Divarim: 24; 9), [this comes to teach us that] the greatness of [Miriam’s] merits did not [benefit her by] by postponing [her punishment] until The Children of Israel came to encamp at a given place, for [if Miriam had instead been afflicted with tzara’as while The B’nei Yisrael were encamped], her punishment would not have been so apparent. However, now [that Miriam] was immediately punished [while The B’nei Yisrael were] on the path, as they were journeying, as is written, “…and the nation did not travel until Miriam was gathered [into the camp]”[13], (Bamidbar: 12; 15) the greatness of [Miriam’s] shame was made apparent to everyone, as it is written, “…would she not be ashamed…?”[14] (Bamidbar: 12; 14) At what time did the incident [of Miriam having spoken Lashon HaRa and her ensuing tzara’as affliction], occur? “…[A]t the time when you left Egypt.” (Divarim: 24; 9) [Miriam’s punishment occurred at the time that The B’nei Yisrael left Egypt], for the incident [occurred] at the beginning of the second year [after having] departed Egypt, [at which time] the greatness of the punishment that befalls [the person] for [involvement in the sin of Lashon HaRa] was still not known [to The B’nei Yisrael]. ([However, concerning] Moshe Rabbeinu, Alav HaShalom, [the tzara’as] was immediately removed from him [and therefore the punishment of tzara’as befalling one who speaks Lashon HaRa was not known to The B’nei Yisrael], as it is written, “…and, behold, it returned to being like his flesh.”[15] (Shmos: 4; 7)) [In contrast to the lack of awareness concerning the severity of the sin of Lashon HaRa at the time that The B’nei Yisrael departed Egypt], subsequent [to Miriam’s well-known punishment of tzara’as], at the time that [The B’nei Yisrael] needed to enter The Land [of Israel], and were corrupted through the Lashon HaRa [spoken by] the [ten] spies, the sin was much greater, for they had seen the punishment [inflicted upon] Miriam and did not take moral rebuke. Therefore, the Parsha of “Sh’lach” is juxtaposed with the Parsha [which discusses the incident] involving Miriam, [the above teaching follows] RaSh”I’s explanation [on that pasuk]. (Bamidbar: 13; 2)


[1] The entire pasuk reads, “Remember that which HaShem, your G-d, did to Miriam on the path when you left Egypt.” (Divraim: 24; 8 – 9)

[2] In seferChofetz Chaim” (Introduction – “Prohibitions”, sif 3), in his discussion concerning the prohibitions that the rocheil (talebearer) transgresses, the Chofetz Chaim writes, “…[Our Sages] have explained in “Sifrei”, that that which The Torah wrote “…to exceedingly guard…” (Devarim: 24; 8), [when discussing the tzara’as affliction], the intended [teaching is] that one should be careful to not forget to be careful [to avoid] Lashon HaRa, so that you will not [be afflicted with] tzara’as as a result of relating [the Lashon HaRa].”

In the “B’air Mayim Chaim”, the Chofetz Chaim’s notes on the main text of seferChofetz Chaim”, he notes that the reason that the teaching concerning the tzara’as affliction is taught in the context of the rocheil, is to teach us that aside from Lashon HaRa, the sin of rechilus also would result in the punishment of tzara’as. As proof of this, the gemara in masechesArachin” (16a), as RaSh”I explains, teaches that one suffers from tzara’as afflictions if his speech leads people to quarrel with one another. Talebearing is a sin which commonly leads to quarreling. In masechesSanhedrin” (106b), we learn that Doeg was afflicted with tzara’as, it being known that he was a rocheil. The Chofetz Chaim points out that we learn from the tzara’as of Miriam that a person could be afflicted with tzara’as even if they relate the Lashon HaRa in private. The Chofetz Chaim writes that if someone accepts the Lashon HaRa that was related as being true, but remains silent and thereby doesn’t assist the speaker in reference to the Lashon HaRa that he spoke, then there is a question whether such a person could be afflicted with tzara’as. From the above, we see that if someone accepts the Lashon HaRa and verbally assists the speaker, then he could be afflicted with tzara’as.

[3] In “Vayikra Rabbah” (Parsha 16; 7), we learn that a type of bird which is referred to as a “דרור” – “d’ror” is used in the purification process of the metzora. Rabbi Yehuda bar Simone teaches that the birds used for the metzora are a type of bird which regularly makes its voice heard, this being the case as a bird whose voice is always heard should atone for the metzora, who used his voice to sin by speaking Lashon HaRa. Therefore, HaShem commands us that such a bird is to be used for the metzora.

The RaMBa”N, on ParshasMetzora” (Vayikra: 14; 4), quoting Rabbi Yosi HaGalili, teaches us that the d’ror is a type of bird which lives in the field, outside of the city. Rabbi Ovadiah from Bartenura on maseches “N
ga’eem” (14; 1), explains that the d’ror lives in the house just as it lives in the field.

The process of purification for the metzora, among other things, requires that one of the birds be slaughtered, its blood being used toward purifying the metzora, while the other bird is left to fly free over the field.

Quoting masechesChullin” (62a), the RaMBa”N teaches that the “d’ror” does refer to one type of bird, though the “d’ror” birds which are kosher are to be used for the process. If another type of kosher bird is used in the process, the metzora is purified b’di avad (“b’di avad” refers to a situation where someone performed a certain halachic act in the way in which it should not initially be performed, if, after the fact, the person realizes his error, in some situations his action would be considered to be halachically acceptable, or “b’di avad”). In Modern Hebrew, “d’ror” is translated as “sparrow”. The “sparrow” is a kosher bird, which, if truly in the category of “d’ror” would be able to be used towards the purification of the metzora. However, if the sparrow is not halachically considered a “d’ror”, it would only work toward purification b’di avad.

Perhaps the fact that a bird which lives outside of habitated areas, is used in the purification process of the metzora, teaches us that this individual who spoke Lashon HaRa, is sent outside of the areas of human habitation for having spoken Lashon HaRa. The type of bird which is slaughtered also has the characteristic of making its voice heard. The speaker of Lashon HaRa should be careful with his voice so as not to potentially cause himself and others great harm, as can be learned from the slaughtering of one of the birds.

[4] The entire pasuk reads as follows:

“And the kohen shall command and he shall slaughter the one bird into an earthenware vessel, over the water of a spring.” (Vayikra: 14; 5)

[5] The entire teaching from “Vayikra Rabbah”, states as follows:

“Why does [the person] slaughter one [of the birds] and allow [one of the birds to live]? [The above comes to] inform you [that] just as it is impossible for the slaughtered [bird] to return, [similarly, it is impossible for [the] tzara’as afflictions to return to where it came from]. At that point in time, The Holy One, Blessed is He, calls to His legions, and says [to them], ‘It was not for no reason that I struck [this person with tzara’as afflictions], rather, “Due to his sin of theft, I became angry and struck him…”’ (Yeshayahu: 57; 17) Rabbi Abba, the son of Kahana said, ‘vomit returns to vomit’, as [it says in “Mishlei”], “As a dog who returns to his vomit, [so too is a fool who repeats his folly].” (Mishlei: 26; 11) Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi said, ‘the madman returns to his practice of insanity, as [it says in “Mishlei”], “…a fool repeats his folly.”’

“I have seen his ways [that he is submissive before Me (RaSh”I)], and I shall heal him, and I shall comfort him, and I shall provide compensation for him and for those who mourn for him.” (Yeshayahu: 57; 18) [“Those who mourn for him”] refers to [that person’s] limbs who are mourning for him.

“The Creator of the speech of the lips…” (Yeshayahu: 57; 19) Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi said, ‘If the person’s lips move in prayer, he will be promised that his prayer will be heard, as it says, “…You prepare their hearts, Your Ear shall listen attentively.” (Tehillim: 10; 17) Once he is unimpaired, he becomes pure from afar.’ Rabbi Huna and Rabbi Yudan [said] in the name of Rabbi Acha, ‘[The above refers to] a mitzora who was distant and was brought close. HaShem said, ‘And I shall heal him, I shall cure him for his sake’, as it says, “HaShem, cure me and I shall be healed, save me and I shall be saved…”” (Yirmiyahu: 17; 14)

[6] The gemara in masechesNidarim”, states as follows:

“We learn in a Barasia: Four people are considered to be like a dead person: One who is poor, [a] metzora, a blind person, and one who does not have any children. A poor person [is considered to be like one who is dead], as it is written, “…for all of the people [who are seeking your life] have died.” (Shmos: 4; 19) [This follows that which we learn earlier in the gemara, that according to Rabbi Yochanan in the name of Rabbi Shimon ben Yochai, Dathan and Aviram are the one’s who the pasuk refers to when it says, “for all of the people… have died”. Reish Lakish explains that since Dathan and Aviram became impoverished, it is considered as if they had died.] A metzora [is considered to be like one who is dead], as it is written [in the pasuk where Aharon asks Moshe to pray on behalf of Miriam to be healed from her tzara’as affliction], “Do not let her be like a dead person…” (Bamidbar: 12; 12) One who is blind [is comparable to one who is dead], as it is written, “You have placed me in places of great darkness, like the dead of the world.” (Eichah: 3; 6) One who has no children [is considered to be as one who is dead], as it is written [in the context of Rachel speaking to Ya’akov concerning her not having had any children], “…‘Give me children, and if not, I am dead.” (B’reishis: 30; 1)

[7] In parshasChukas”, we read of Miriam’s death (Bamidbar: 20; 1), and in the next pasuk, we read that “…the people did not have water…” Based on this juxtaposition between Miriam’s death and the subsequent lack of water, RaSh”I comments that “[we learn] from here that [during] the entire forty-years [in the Sinai Desert, The B’nei Yisrael] had the well in the merit of Miriam.” (Ta’anis; 9a)

[8] This pasuk which mentions that Miriam was a prophetess, teaches us that at the time that HaShem split the Yam Suf (Sea of Reeds, alternatively “Red Sea”) for The B’nei Yisrael when they were fleeing from the Egyptian army, Miriam went out to lead the women in song and dance in honor of HaShem, thanking Him for this great miracle in which He saved them from destruction at the hands of the Egyptian army. We see that at the time that Moshe was leading the men in song in honor of HaShem (Shmos: 15; 1), Miriam was leading the women in song. (15; 20) (See “Mechilta” and masechesSotah” (30b).)

The entire pasuk reads, “And Miriam the prophetess, the sister of Aharon, took the drum in her hand, and all of the women went out after her, with drums and with dancing.” (Shmos: 15; 20)

RaSh”I quoting Rabbi Nachman’s teaching from masechesSotah” (12b – 13a), notes that Miriam was a prophetess when she said that “In the future, my mother will give birth to the savior of Israel”. Rav Nachman points out that Miriam is referred to as “the sister of Aharon” in the pasuk which describes her as a prophetess because she prophesied before Moshe’s birth, when Aharon was her only brother.

According to the “Mechilta”, Miriam is referred to as the “sister of Aharon” because, at the time that Miriam was afflicted with tzara’as after having spoken Lashon HaRa concerning Moshe, Aharon spoke to Moshe on her behalf, asking him to intercede and ask HaShem to heal Miriam from her affliction. (Bamidbar: 12; 11 – 12)

[9] Miriam was involved in saving Moshe from the water when he was a baby and was in a basin, floating in the Nile River, at the time that Pharoh decreed that all male Jewish babies were to be killed. (Shmos: 1; 16) Miriam stood from a distance to watch Moshe. (Shmos: 2; 4) Miriam saw that the daughter of Pharoh came to the Nile and noticed Moshe. The women with her tried, unsuccessfully, to get Moshe to nurse from any one of a number of Egyptian women, which Moshe didn’t nurse from, as he would speak with HaShem’s Divine Presence in the future. (RaSh”I on Shmos (2; 7), quoting masechesSotah” (12b)) Miriam went to suggest that Moshe should be nursed by a Jewish woman, she being Yocheved, Moshe’s mother. Apparently, by watching Moshe and exposing herself to Pharoh’s daughter (and her handmaidens) in order to try to save Moshe, especially at the time that Pharoh’s decree was in force, Miriam was risking her life while trying to help save Moshe’s life.

[10] The RaMBa”M notes that Miriam made a mistake by comparing Moshe to the other prophets, as Moshe’s level of prophecy was superior to the level of prophecy attained by the other prophets.

Miriam compared Moshe to the other prophets when she said, “…‘Does HaShem only speak with Moshe, doesn’t He also speak with us…’” (Bamidbar: 12; 2)

Miriam’s point was that Moshe’s shouldn’t be any different from her and Aharon, and should therefore not separate from his wife, as they were also prophets and did not separate from their spouses. (Tanchuma: 96; 13)

HaShem then immediately appeared to Aharon and Miriam, since they had not separated from their respective spouses, they were impure and therefore unprepared to have HaShem speak with them, and were crying out “water, water” in order to purify themselves. (RaSh”I quoting “Tanchuma” on Bamidbar (12; 4)) This came to teach them that Moshe’s prophecy was unique and superior to their prophecy, as Moshe had to be prepared to speak with HaShem at any time and therefore had to be separated from his wife so that he would remain in a state of purity.

HaShem then explains to Aharon and Miriam concerning the uniqueness of Moshe’s prophecy, as follows:

“…‘If you will have prophets [amongst you], HaShem will make Himself known to them in a vision, I shall speak with [them] in a dream. This is not the case with My servant, Moshe, he is the most trustworthy in all of My House. I will speak with him mouth to mouth, [I speak with him] in a vision and not through riddles, and he shall stare at the form of HaShem…’” (Bamidbar: 12; 6 – 8)

RaSh”I, quoting “Sifrei”, explains that, as we learn in parshasKi Sisa”, Moshe sees the back of HaShem.

[11] The Hebrew phrase “לבנינו של עולם” literally means “for the building of the world” which, in this context, refers to procreation.

[12] The entire pasuk reads, “And the man, Moshe, was very humble, [more humble] than all people on the face of the Earth.” (Bamidbar: 12; 3)

The RaMBa”N, quoting the “Sifrei” (Piskah 100), quotes Rabbi Nathan, who says that Moshe was present at the time that Miriam spoke Lashon HaRa concerning him to Aharon. However, since Moshe was so humble, he covered over the matter. According to the other opinion quoted in the “Sifrei”, Miriam spoke Lashon HaRa only to Aharon. The RAMBa”N notes that the pasuk mentions Moshe’s humililty, since, according to the opinion that states that he was present, that he heard what they said, bore it, and didn’t respond to them, and HaShem was zealous on behalf of Moshe.

Perhaps due to Moshe's humility, he didn't feel like telling Miriam and Aharon that his prophecy was superior to theirs. Therefore, HaShem came and defended Moshe be explaining to them concerning Moshe's superior level of prophecy.

Keser Yonasan” explains that Moshe was not bothered by the Lashon HaRa that Miriam spoke to Aharon, concerning him.

[13] The entire pasuk reads, “And Miriam was confined outside of the camp for seven days, and The Nation did not travel until Miriam was gathering [into the camp].” (Bamidbar: 12; 15)

[14] The entire pasuk reads as follows:

“And HaShem said to Moshe, ‘And her father shall surely spit in her face, wouldn’t she be ashamed for seven days, she shall be confined for seven days from outside of the camp and afterwards she shall be gathered [into the camp].”

RaSh”I explains that if Miriam’s father would show her an angry countenance for some wrong that she had committed, wouldn’t she be embarrassed for seven days. Therefore, it is all the more-so the case that Miriam should be confined for seven days.

[15] The entire pasuk reads as follows:

“And He said, ‘Return your hand into your garment’, and [Moshe] returned his hand into his garment, and he [then] took [his hand] out of his garment, and behold, it returned to being like his flesh.” (Shmos: 4; 7)

The previous pasuk discusses HaShem’s command to Moshe to put his hand into his cloak. Once Moshe took his hand out of his cloak, his hand had tzara’as. (Shmos: 4; 3) RaSh”I notes that Moshe was afflicted with tzara’as for having spoken Lashon HaRa against The Jewish People by having said, in punishment for having said that The B’nei Yisrael would not believe him when he would tell them that HaShem revealed Himself to Moshe, (Shmos: 4; 1) when Moshe would come and relate to them that HaShem had revealed Himself to Moshe in order to tell them that they would be redeemed from Egypt. (Shmos: 3; 16 – 17) HaShem then told Moshe that The B’nei Yisrael would believe him when he would tell them that HaShem would take them out of Egypt. (Shmos: 3; 16 – 18) HaShem told Moshe that there was no need to doubt whether The B’nei Yisrael would believe him. Moshe shouldn’t have a doubt, for even if they wouldn’t initially believe Moshe, which wouldn’t be the case, as the “Or HaChaim” says (Shmos: 4; 8), however, the signs would be for Moshe, for even “if” The B’nei Yisrael “wouldn’t” initially believe him, once they would see Moshe perform the signs they would believe his message. (Shmos: 4; 8) As HaShem told Moshe, The B’nei Yisrael did believe Moshe when he related his message to them, subsequent to his having performed the signs. (Shmos: 4; 31) According to “Shmos Rabbah”, (Parsha 5; 13), The B’nei Yisrael believed Moshe that HaShem would redeem them, without the aid of the signs that Moshe performed. The B’nei Yisrael believed Moshe that HaShem would redeem them, as there was a secret sign that was passed down to them from Ya’akov, which Serach, the daughter of Asher, was aware of, that being that when someone would come to them and say the words “פקוד פקדתי אתכם” – “Pakod Pakadti Eschem” – “I have surely remembered you”, this was the person who would come to lead them to redemption. Once Moshe said that phrase to The B’nei Yisrael, they believed as is evident from the wording in the pasuk, “And The Nation believed, and they heard that HaShem had remembered The B’nei Yisrael, and they knelt and they bowed.” (Shmos: 4; 31) Since the pasuk states that The B’nei Yisrael heard that HaShem had remembered – “pakad” – them, they immediately believed Moshe that HaShem would redeem them.

Moshe’s punishment, as evident from the pesukim, was very brief. (Shmos: 4; 6 – 7) In the following instructs Moshe about performing the signs – the staff turning into a snake and turning back into a staff, and Moshe’s hand becoming stricken with tzara’as. The RaMBa”N teaches that the first sign, involving the snake, hinted to Moshe that he had spoken Lashon HaRa against The B’nei Yisrael, whereas the second one, where he was briefly stricken with tzara’as was as a punishment for his having spoken the Lashon HaRa. (Shmos: 4; 3) We learn that Moshe performed these signs in front of The B’nei Yisrael. However, as the Chofetz Chaim writes, since the punishment of tzara’as which The B’nei Yisrael witnessed occurred to Moshe, was immediately removed from him, they were not truly aware of the serious consequences for speaking Lashon HaRa. However, once Miriam was stricken with tzara’as for a week and was temporarily banished from the camp of The B’nei Yisrael, especially in such an obvious manner, when they were traveling, the seriousness of the punishment for speaking Lashon HaRa become known to The B’nei Yisrael.

Wednesday, August 08, 2007

Shmiras HaLashon כ"ט טבת - Teves 29 - One-Hundred-and-Nineteenth Day

© 2007 by Robert Lepor. All rights reserved.

The person should not be astounded [concerning the apparent ineffectiveness of reciting “Zachor” in reference to Miriam’s punishment for her having spoken Lashon HaRa against Moshe, for] we [take note with] our senses, that subsequent to, and, at times, even while [one] recites “Zachor” – “Remember [that which HaShem, your G-d, did to Miriam, on the path, when you left Egypt”, in punishment for her having spoken Lashon HaRa against Moshe, the person] is [nevertheless] speaking Lashon HaRa.[1] [In light of the above reality], where does the advice of The Torah [lead to, if people actively remember the punishment that Miriam suffered on account of her having spoken Lashon HaRa, and nevertheless shortly thereafter speak Lashon HaRa]? Really, in truth, [the advice of The Torah is not lacking at all, for] isn’t it written concerning words of Torah, “For it is not an empty matter for you…”[2] (Divarim: 32; 47), [the meaning of this pasuk being that] if [The Torah] is “empty” – it is empty [on account of] you, [The Torah itself not being empty][3]. Due to our numerous sins, that which the Prophet Yishaya, Alav HaShalom, said, is fulfilled concerning us, “… ‘Because this nation has approached, with its mouth and with its lips it has honored Me, and its heart is far from me…”[4] (Yishayahu: 29; 13) [This pasuk could also commonly apply nowadays], for we [recite] “Zachor” only with our mouths, and we do not remember [of the importance of taking to heart the severity of the sin of Lashon HaRa, and of its great punishment, even] at the time [when we undertake] the action [of verbalizing this remembrance concerning Miriam’s punishment for her having spoken Lashon HaRa]. If the person were to take to heart to [properly] fulfill the remembrance [of Miriam’s punishment for having spoken Lashon HaRa], in accordance with that which HaShem Yisbarach has commanded us, a great benefit would definitely [be gained toward] saving [ourselves] from [involvement in the] sin [of Lashon HaRa].

[1] The sin of Lashon HaRa can be performed through inflections in one’s speech which would thereby convey Lashon HaRa, as well as by physical gestures that would indicate the negative.

Therefore, even while reciting the pasuk which recalls Miriam’s punishment for speaking Lashon HaRa, one can involve oneself in Lashon HaRa actively, through gesturing or saying the words with certain inflections or can passively involve oneself in Lashon HaRa by listening to another person relate Lashon HaRa.

[2] The entire pasuk reads, “For [The Torah] is not an empty matter from you, for it is your lives, and with this thing you shall lengthen your days on the Land which you are crossing the Jordan [River, to go] over there [in order] to inherit it.” (Devarim: 32; 47)

RaSh”I writes on this pasuk, as follows:

“You are not wearying yourselves in [The Torah] for no reason, for there is great reward dependent on [involvement in The Torah], “for it is your lives”. Another explanation, [is as follows]: There is nothing empty in The Torah, concerning which if you would expound it, that you wouldn’t receive a reward [for that]. You should know [that this is the case], for such did the Chachamim (Sages) say [concerning the following pasuk], “and the sister of Lotan was Timna” (B’reishis: 36; 22) “and Timna was a concubine [to Eliphaz, the son of Eisav]” (36; 12) Since [Timna] said, ‘I am not fitting to be his wife, if only I could be his concubine’. Why [did The Torah inform us] of all of this? In order to inform [us] concerning the praise of Avraham, that rulers and kings desired to cling to his descendants.” (Sifrei: 32; 46)

Therefore, as RaSh”I has explained, The Torah is not lacking and is not empty in any regard.

[3] This teaching that if The Torah is empty, it is only empty on account of the person, can be found in the notes on the commentary of the “Torah T’mimah” (D’varim: 32; 47), where he quotes the Talmud Yerushalmi, masechesPeah” (Chapter 1; Halacha 1), where Rav Manna teaches that if any matter in The Torah seems to be unclear to the person, it is due to not having put in sufficient effort in studying the given matter that would allow that person to have a clear understading of the topic. In order to make The Torah “our lives” we have to put great effort in our involvement in The Torah (weary ourselves in The Torah).

[4] The entire pasuk from seferYeshayahu” states as follows:

HaShem said, ‘Since this nation has approached Me, through their mouth and their lips they have honored Me, and their heart is distant from Me, and their fear of Me will be like the command of those who teach them.” (Yishayhu: 29; 13)

RaSh”I explains that the fear of these people will not be carried out wholeheartedly, rather they behave in accordance with that which they are taught – to approach HaShem while acting submissively in order “to entice” Him with their mouths and their lips, merely acting as if they are honoring HaShem, though their hearts are distant from HaShem.

MaLBI”M explains this pasuk in the context of that which immediately precedes this pasuk (Yeshayahu: 29; 9 – 12), where some people claim that, since HaShem is so lofty, it is impossible to understand the messages that HaShem sends to them. Therefore, these people who act as if they are honoring HaShem by saying that His messages are above our comprehension, are really only honoring HaShem “through their mouths and their lips”, while, in reality, by making such claims, they are effectively distancing their hearts from HaShem. Since, through their claims that it is impossible to comprehend The laws and mitzvos of HaShem, they act as if we only have to outwardly perform the mitzvos, with no thought or kavana (concentration on the action being performed). Therefore, even their fear of HaShem will not complete and genuine, it will rather be that which one has been accustomed to. The MaLBI”M differentiates the aforementioned types of people with those who are accustomed to perform the mitzvos from their youth, though they don’t invest thought and kavana in the performance of the mitzvos, but they believe that the mitzvos come from HaShem. However, in our context, the people who perform the mitzvos out of habituation do so only because they are instructed by their teachers and their parents to do so, not because HaShem commanded them to perform the mitzvos. For due to such claims that HaShem’s laws and messages are impossible to understand, the person will deny that HaShem even commanded people to perform these mitzvos and claim that people are unable to understand the reasons and the intention behind the mitzvos.

Clearly, as this pasuk applies to our context of speaking Lashon HaRa regardless of having remembered concerning the Lashon HaRa that Miriam spoke and her ensuing punishment, they are merely reciting this pasuk with “their mouths and their lips”, due to their being accustomed to recite this pasuk, though they lack the proper kavana, and thereby do not recite the pasuk wholeheartedly. Therefore, due to the lacking of the person who is reciting this pasuk, they can so easily involve themselves in Lashon HaRa though they have just verbalized concerning the greatness of the sin of Lashon HaRa and of its ensuing punishment.

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Tuesday, August 07, 2007

Shmiras HaLashon כ"ח טבת - Teves 28 - One-Hundred-and-Eighteenth Day

© 2007 by Robert Lepor. All rights reserved.

Chapter 12

In [this Chapter, we] shall Explain [Concerning] that which The Torah said, [That being] that [the] Remembrance of the Incident Involving Miriam, Benefits [the Person, By] Saving him from this Bitter Sin [of Lashon HaRa]

There is a general piece of advice to [help] save [oneself] from this bitter sin [of Lashon HaRa] and from its’ punishment, that [piece of advice] being that which HaShem Yisbarach [has] taught us in Parshas “[Ki] Seitzei”, [as follows]: “Guard yourself concerning the tzara’as affliction, to guard exceedingly and to perform in accordance with all that which the Kohanim will instruct you…”, and juxtaposed [to that verse is written], “Remember that which HaShem your G-d did to Miriam on the path when you left Egypt.” (Divraim: 24; 8 – 9) We learn in Sifra[1], [as follows]: “Remember that which [HaShem] did…” – Perhaps [such remembrance is sufficient] in your heart? When [the previous pasuk] says ”Guard yourself concerning the tzara’as affliction, to guard exceedingly and to perform...”, behold guarding of the heart is stated [over here], (for the Sifra explains “Guard the tzara’as affliction” – [to mean] “from the tzara’as affliction”, the intended meaning [of this being] that we should not divert our hearts from guarding [ourselves] from the sin [of Lashon HaRa] which leads to this [punishment of tzara’as]). [Now that we already have a source for remembering in our hearts to guard ourselves from the sin of Lashon HaRa], what do I [derive from the command to] “Remember” [that which HaShem did to Miriam because of the Lashon HaRa that she spoke against Moshe]? [You learn] that you should verbally repeat [this incident]. This being the case [that one is commanded to verbally mention the incident involving Miriam’s punishment for speaking Lashon HaRa against Moshe]*[2], [then we see that] it is the will of the Torah that one mentions the punishment [for] this great sin [of Lashon HaRa, both] in [one’s] heart and verbally, in order to benefit our souls through [these actions. The above teaching follows that which] the RaMBa”N wrote in the seventh mitzvah of his [discussion of the] mitzvos, [as follows]: “We are commanded to verbally mention and to return to our hearts, [concerning] that which HaShem, Yisaleh[3], did to Miriam, once she spoke [Lashon HaRa] concerning her brother, though she was a prophetess. [We must verbally mention the punishment that HaShem inflicted upon Miriam], in order that we will distance ourselves from Lashon HaRa, and so that we will not be among the group of those, concerning whom it says [in seferTehillim”, as follows]: “When you sit down [to rest], you speak [slander] concerning your brother, you [even] speak slander [against] the son of your mother.”[4][5] (Tehillim: 50; 20) For, in truth, remembering the prohibition and the greatness of the punishment [of Lashon HaRa], brings one to guard [oneself] from [this sin of Lashon HaRa], just as remembering positive commandments brings one to fulfill them, as it is written, “…and you shall remember the commandments of HaShem and you shall perform them…” (Bamidbar: 15; 39), the explanation [of the pasuk in this context] follows RaSh”I[6].

[1] Note from the “Kol HaLashon” printing: This teaching from the “Sifra” is found on ParshasBichukosai”, Parsha 1, on the pasukIm Bichukosai” (21; 3).

[2] Chofetz Chaim’s note: As this is the case, apparently, from the straightforward understanding of the pasuk, one is required to verbally mention the punishment [that] Miriam [underwent. However, we are not accustomed] to be careful in this matter [of reciting the pasuk related to the tzara’as punishment that Miriam suffered for speaking Lashon HaRa against Moshe. The fact that many people do not recite the pasuk related to Miriam’s punishment] requires investigation.

[3] “Yisaleh” means “elevated”.

[4] See note three on the 27th day of Tishrei for commentary on this pasuk.

[5] In another text of the RaMBa”N’s writing on the seventh mitzvah, it says that we should remember that which Amalek did to The Jewish People once we left Egypt, when they attacked us and showed no fear of HaShem. By remembering that which Amalek did, we will realize that HaShem will not wipe out the name of
Amalek for no reason, rather He will wipe out Amalek out of His pity for The Jewish People. Similarly, people should remember the incident involving Miriam have spoken Lashon HaRa against Moshe and her ensuing pusnishment to help us so that we will not fall prey to involving ourselves in the sin of Lashon HaRa and suffer a similar type of punishment.

[6] RaSh”I points out that the numerical value of the Hebrew word “tzitzis” – “ציצית” is 600. In addition, tzitzis has eight strings and five knots, on each of the four corners, which total 613, the number of mitzvos in The Torah. The Torah informs us that one of the purposes of tzitzis is to remind us concerning the 613 commandments of The Torah.

Clearly, just as one remembers to perform the 613 mitzvos by seeing the tzitzis, so too, by reciting the pasuk which commands us to remember of the punishment that HaShem inflicted upon Miriam, we would be reminded to avoid involving ourselves in the sin of Lashon HaRa.